Happy to New Year to one and all!  2014 starts tomorrow full of new opportunities to learn and grow.  We just returned from a "new member" lesson with a Marshallese brother who has been taking the missionary lessons for over 30 years off and on.  All 6 of his children are members of the church but he just never felt the time was right for him to join the church.  Two of his children are in my Sunday School class and when we had gone to their home before he was not receptive.  To state that he was friendly would have been the understatement of the year.  He is a changed man.  His heart has softened and he wants to learn as much as he can about the gospel.  His wife speaks no English and is extremely shy so their 20 year old daughter translates for us to her. It continues to impress me how clean the Marshallese people are in their homes.  I was thrilled to see the 2 little granddaughters playing with toys!!  We have always assumed that all children have toys of some sort but that has not been the case in many Marshallese homes.   I'm not quite sure if it's because they can't afford them or they just don't feel that they are important.  We had a wonderful Christmas with Amy's family and returned rejuvenated and ready to hit it hard for the next 7-8 weeks.  We miss all of our children and grandchildren so it has been such a blessing to be close to Amy's family, especially for the holidays.  I almost feel guilty and don't want to tell the other senior missionaries that we are going to visit family when they do not have any family close by to see.  Everyone here loves hot chocolate so we made 200 "Candy  Cane Cocoa Dippers" to give as gifts.  We put the "dippers" in with cocoa packages and they were well received.  When we went to Amy's we took supplies and their kids made them to give to family and friends.  Amy made nativity costumes this year and 14 Wise grandchildren acted out the Christmas story from the scriptures while G-pa Wise read.  (That's Alph's Dad.)  Our Bea, who's almost 4, took her role as Mary very seriously and cuddled that baby doll just as tenderly as she would have a newborn babe.  Simon wanted to be the innkeeper because he knew what the innkeeper said, "There's NO ROOM here."  He firmly said his lines with great gusto.  Whenever I hear the innkeepers lines, I think of Neal Maxwell's popular quote, "Each of us is an innkeeper who decides if there is room for Jesus."  My friend, Cindy, made me a Christmas ornament one year with that quote on it and I keep it around all year to remind me not to make room for Him just at Christmas but all year around.  On Christmas Day we opened presents very slowly.  I know that may be hard to imagine with 5 kiddos but Amy and Alph feel very strongly about really enjoying the gifts and expressing appreciation for them.  The grandchildren had bought us gifts from the Dollar Store which they picked out personally for Hana and Hapa.   Last year Melissa and other children sent us lots of little gifts to put under our tree and it was such fun opening one a day.  We have enjoyed using all the gifts and we are saving the "hand warmers" for our trip home.  Hopefully, we won't need to use them!!  Christmas evening Alph's brother, Brig and family, came for supper and we had a family talent show.  Amy said it was the "Wises 1st Annual Christmas Day Talent Show."  John and I did a song rewritten by Julie Andrews to the tune of "My Favorite Things" but was called "Ode to the Old".  It was a smashing success but the kids had no idea what Pollident   or dentures were.  Loretta Broker and I did that song many years ago at Villa Marie Nursing Home and won a talent contest.  We taught the older kids how to play "Spoons" and played "Catch Me' with the twinners.  It is so wonderful to kneel in family prayer and express our gratitude for all our blessings.  All the grandkids love to do "Sure Love Ya" in our circle.  Thanks Cananns for sharing that lovely tradition with us so many years ago.  We are having four other seniors missionaries over to play "Spoons" and "Dominos" this evening and then we are going to crash a New Year Even's party at the Tongan Ward.  How grateful I am for all the blessing and challenges of the past year!!  2014 will be much different for us than 2013 but hopefully we will be able to continue to grow and learn in the Gospel and have many opportunities for service.  We are going to Hawaii for a week at the end of our mission (thanks to our children) so if any of you have been there and know of "must see" places, please let us know.  We miss you all and look forward to renewing our friendships and making new ones in 2014.

Tis the Season

     Hello dear friends. Sherrie and I just got back from driving around some neighborhoods tonight looking at the beautiful lights and decorations. One ten block area is called the "Fabulous Forties" and is like stepping back into time as we walk down street lined boulevards of stately homes of all sizes and shapes that were built in that era. Each block of homes had decided on a main lighting design for the street and trees and then the individual home owners would decorate their homes around that theme. This was complete with horse drawn carriages and long limos driving people around to see the sights. We even saw a "fleet" of sightseeing bicycle riders go by with their bikes all lit up and decorated. Amazing! Walking down the sidewalks on a full moon night at 40 degrees made it quite magical.
     As with any city there is always so much going on at Christmas. Last Saturday we went to a "Tuba Christmas". This was the 40th year for the program that has been held at one of the local high schools at which over one hundred individuals ranging in age from 11 to 83 play tubas or related brass horns of various sizes. There were at least 30 of the big marching sousaphones along the back row, and then below them the next size down and so on. This is one of one hundred and sixty such tuba Christmas concerts that are played throughout the world at this time. What an experience!
    This past weekend was also the weekend of a beautiful Nativity display exhibit that is held annually here in one of the big stake centers. There were hundreds of nativities on display. It brought back memories of the one we had in Jefferson City for several years.
     If there was a downside of this past week or so, it has been that of our mode of transportation. The car was bucking and snorting like a horse. After having three or four mechanics looked at it and give their opinions and shrug their shoulders we were getting discouraged. Then after much prayer and the advice of a good friend and member of our congregation I bought a new set of spark plugs and wires and took matters into my own hands. Happily we now have a smooth running car, but I still don't want to be a mechanic as a second vocation. Car computers do not give out all the answers of what to fix at times! I'm starting to believe this electric hub that I bought for my recumbent bike that I will be using when we get home sounds better and better. I think I'll get one for the tandem also, and do away with our car!
    Switching gears to what Christmas is all about, Sherrie and I are so grateful for all that the Savior has done for us and all of mankind. As we continue to read daily from a book entitled "Infinite Atonement" and we try to comprehend what the God the Eternal Father and His son Jesus Christ have done for us, it is hard to grasp what happened, yet at the same time, how grateful all of mankind must and should be for what they did do.
    The fact that Jesus Christ was with His Heavenly Father in the planning stages of "worlds without end", that He then under his Father's direction created heaven and earth, and then was chosen and willing to come here as a baby, grow to adulthood, die and atone for the sins of all mankind, and that he will someday return again to this earth is a lot to comprehend but at the same time it enables us to have the faith to believe that it is all so real.
    At a recent "Christmas conference" that all of us in the mission attended last week, we learned to think this time of year as the "The spirit of Christ" rather than "The spirit of Christmas". We were encouraged to think as individuals more along the lines of "What shall we give Christ for Christmas?" One thought we were given as Christians is to offer our whole soul as an offering to Christ, to endure to the end, to sacrifice through service and align our will with Him. Striving to live in a small infinite way like the Savior did when he was here upon this earth is a good start for me in trying to give back something to Him.
     As Neal A. Maxwell once said "There is a personalized plan for each of us. Like the Christmas star, each of us, if faithful, has an ordained orbit [a reward for us] if we live a life such that the Savior wants us to live".
     My friends, I want you to know that I know that Jesus is the Christ. He has given the ultimate gift to all mankind, His life. And because of that I know that eternal life is possible and that as we endure to the end we will be blessed to someday be in the presence of Him and a wonderful loving Heavenly Father. I know it. I know it.

Love ya,

Elder John
    

The season of Christmas is here!!  We both love this season so much but yet get so emotional about everything!!  We've always been this way but seem to get more weepy as we get older.  California, especially our Sacramento area, is the home to MANY homeless people.  If I knew the exact numbers I would probably cry all the time.  It has been around 30 degrees during the night and we have often thought about where those with no shelter go to sleep in the cold.  We sit in our cozy little, modest, apartment and if we get cold, just turn up the thermostat or put on more clothes.  How blessed we are!  We had a wonderful visit with Amy and family over Thanksgiving.  We were to go to Alph's parents home but they got the flu so Amy and Alph pulled off an incredible Thanksgiving feast in a very short amount of time.  Alph's family graciously include us in their family activities and we do so appreciate their kindness.  We got to attend Sophie's (our oldest grand daughter) play "Aladdin Jr."  She "shines" on the stage.  Your eyes are just drawn to her because she has great stage presence and such a warm, natural smile.  The next night John and I took Oliver, Beatrice and Simon to "Temple Hill".  This is where the LDS Oakland Temple is located, just 20 minutes from Amy. We really didn't want to take Simon (3 1/2) because he doesn't like to sit still for very long.  He pleaded and promised to  "be good" so much we didn't have the heart to leave him.  I'm happy to report, all 3 children were great!  Simon said, "I kept my promise, huh, Hana?  Now I can go with you other places, right?"  I told him that he was now a good "promise keeper" and we would be happy to take him anywhere (well, "almost" anywhere.)   There was an hour of incredible music and then we went outside the Stake Center and watched as they turned on gazillions of Christmas lights.  Huge palm trees were covered and outlined with all these lights.  The music thrilled our souls!  What a wonderful evening and 2 sleepy heads slept all the way home.  We headed back pretty early Sunday morning so that we could keep our Sunday commitments.  We just have one more "marriage class" to teach then our Sundays will slow down a little bit.  We've said this lots, but we really do like to keep busy.  Not crazy busy, just busy. The topic of my Sunday School lesson was "Preparing for the Savior's Second Coming."  I was really having trouble getting and keeping their attention until we got to the scriptures that tell about the signs of the time that will happen before He comes.  When we started checking off the events that have or are now occurring, the class became very serious.  One student said, "You mean, we don't know exactly when He will come BUT it could be ANYTIME?"  The whole class was like, "Wow".  I asked if anyone needed to be making any changes in their lives and they quietly nodded yes.  Very sobering moment for many I believe.  We have been attempting to visit many less active members in the two English wards that we work with.  I say "attempting" very loosely.  One of our main responsibilities is to try to help bring "lost sheep" back to the church.  Most folks are not home so we leave a note with our name and number.  I really felt like a missionary last week when we got a door slammed in our face.  Since this was the first time this has happened to us, we were a little taken back to say the least.  We were sharing this with our young Elders and they just smiled because this happens to them all the time.  I admire those young men so much!  Those of you who feed the Elders, we thank you!!  We usually do not make church visits after dark unless we have a specific appointment so our evenings are free to study or do whatever.  We took a recent convert to see the Travis Air Force Golden West Coast Band on Thursday night in downtown Sacramento.  They travel throughout the west coast giving free concerts.  This was a "Songs for the Season" concert and was one of the finest we've ever seen and heard.  When they played the "Star Spangle Banner" to open, I had chills running down my arms!  We just received word that our good neighbor in Jeff City, Tom Brooks, has passed away.  He was a very good man and we will really miss visiting with him when working out in the yard.  Each day here on earth is a gift but thankfully we know that there are such wonderful things awaiting us in eternity.  How grateful I am to know that families can be forever!  We have been having some frustrating problems with our car that no one seems to be able to figure out.  How we miss our Brauns Bros. in Jeff City.  Closing on a funny note.....John got up this morning and put on his glasses and thought, "Mmmmm, my left eye is sure fuzzy.  He went about getting dressed, eating, reading, etc. and began to think, goodness, first my hearing is going and now my eyes are growing worse, even over night.  He started cleaning his glasses, first the right lens then the left.  Strangely, there was no lens in the left side.  He wasn't going blind, the lens had just fallen out!  Thankfully, we found the lens before either of us old fogeys stepped on it!  Popped right back in!!  Got our first Christmas card today with a wonderful newsletter from Chris and Julie.  We appreciate their wonderful care of our home.  We couldn't have served this mission without their willingness to housesit.  We really know Christmas time is here because we broke down and bought some peppermint ice cream.  We had been "ice cream free" for over 2 months!!  And it was soooo good.  Cantorum Christmas Concert is this weekend (we think).  We miss singing with them so much and know that it will be a great concert!  Make the most of the month preparing for the Savior's birth!  Love to all!!
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